How To Be Ghosted With Dignity

The silence that heartache provides is there to teach us how to support ourselves on our own.

Dear Chelsea,

We started texting and I asked him if he wanted to grab a coffee sometime. So we set up this day and time, and unfortunately, he couldn’t make it but said he really wanted to see me and he rescheduled another day.

We went for coffee, and it was the first time in my life where I felt comfortable and at ease with a guy. (I’m 20 years old and have never been in a relationship before.) Our conversation just seemed to flow easily and just staring at him, I was just in lust.

It was also the first time a guy genuinely showed interest in me. The other guys who’ve come into my life were f — kboys and complete a — holes. This time around, it just felt different. There was a connection.

We were supposed to see each other last week. We had made plans and so I texted him asking what he was down to do that evening. He never answered me. All day I was waiting for a response.

I then checked his Twitter that evening (he doesn’t know that I know he has Twitter) and I saw this tweet of his saying, “here’s to ignoring someone you have class with the next day.”

My head started spinning. I just couldn’t believe what I had read. And then he had the audacity to Facebook me and tell me his phone has been broken since Sunday and that he had completely forgotten we had a date.

I didn’t answer him.

The next day when we had class, he told me how sorry he was and how he broke his phone.

We haven’t texted since and I just don’t know why the sudden change in his behavior. I’m so confused, hurt, sad and annoyed. It’s not the first time a guy…

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